The Choice
One of the biggest “choices” that I ever have come across is this….in any relationship….you can either BE IN LOVE or BE RIGHT. You cannot have both. So many times in life we find ourselves struggling in our relationships and we don’t know why. I believe that more often than not we find ourselves at this CHOICE. And when you make the choice to BE RIGHT, you will have to live with the consequences – good or bad.
More often than not though, wanting to BE RIGHT pushes people away from you versus drawing them in, because in all reality how many of you really want to hang out with “know it all’s” or people that have to always BE RIGHT? Not many I suspect, yet if we slow down enough and pay attention to our own actions, are we the ones guilty of it? Sometimes. I encourage you to be aware of it happening and stop yourself and take actions of someone that is committed to BEING IN LOVE.
A person that is committed to BEING IN LOVE is someone that doesn’t have to always be right and is willing to work together within the relationship to make things work. That means sacrificing some things, holding your ego in check, and/or swallowing your pride at times to ensure that LOVE comes first….and BEING IN LOVE is all about serving the other person at such a level that they see, feel and know your love for them.
So as you go about your day to day happenings…..be aware of the CHOICE you have…..and notice how you’ve responded in the past……and then CHOOSE to think, feel, know, and take action towards BEING IN LOVE. I guarantee that long-term, you will have a much more fulfilling, grateful, and joyous life.
Happy and Quality Relationships to you all!
In Your Service
Brandon Johnson
“Positive Energy Guy”
